Well first of all, it has been a while since i last update my blog. Thank you to those who are kind enough to still support me in my little humble writing passion that im not really good at. Hahaha this is amusing
.
.
.
Kalau ada salah silap tu tegur-tegur lah yee
Coming back to the purpose why i am so gigih menaip abjad-abjad untuk blog ni…Well there is something in particular that i want to convey in tonight's writing.
Have you ever experienced any kind of situations where there are certain people in your life that really loves ambushing, criticizing, disparaging, belittle-ing you in any sort of way?
*well you can insert any kind of vocab that you can think of up there*
I am speaking in an experience-based, real-life, worse-case scenario here. It is not really my first time i have people around me hating me for who i am. They hate you for no solid reasons. Hahahaha sedih pulak bila baca balik my sentence ni.
These kind of people basically loves to see you fall, get down on you knees, have wounds all over your body and it is a bonus to them if you bleed to death in the process. Bleed to death tu bukan maksud literally tau. Maksudnya bila dia dah berjaya buat kau down, dia tengok kau putus asa dah tak bangun-bangun. Makanya dia menang lah tu. And kalau kau survive liku-liku kehidupan yang dia campak kat kau and kau berjaya bangkit semula pun, they are hoping that your wounds from the struggle to never healed. Orang orang macam ni jugak tak boleh tengok kau happy, senang, berjaya. Kalau kau lebih dari dia, lagilah dia menyirap dia benci kat kau.
Ada je cacat kau dia nak cari.
Ada je buruk kau dia nak jaja.
Ada je salah kau dia nak hukum.
These are canonically the guideline on how to recognize people that hates your gut.
I honestly thought that people like this only existed in Malay drama yang over the top clishe tu. But then masa zaman-zaman baru masuk asrama and menara gading lah i started to encounter this species. They are actually real . Badluck me, i was fated to have to face this people in person.
Dulu masa zaman rock kapak, perangai macam ayam sikit. Ni masa akhir tahun 2012 masa SPM.. Aku masatu memang jenis yang cakap tak pandang orang tak kira tempat. Kau baling sampah, aku balas balik. Aku buat tahi kau campak balik. Saling berbalas-balas. Sebab tu ada masa memang nak melayan kerenah spisis macam ni. Sebab aku pun tergolong sekali hahahah.
Tapi lama-lama bila dah besar, dah boleh fikir apa baik apa buruk, dah jadi malas nak ambil peduli perihal orang lain, lebih-lebih lagi perihal orang yang kita tahu memang tak suka kita. Kita dah tahu dia benci, kita duduk jauh-jauh lah kan.
Analogi dia sama dengan kita terserempak dengan anjing yang tengah menyalak sebab sangka kita ni pencuri. What do we do? We go away. We stay away from the dog as we can clearly see that they are barking and hating you. Do you go to the dog and try to play "catch" with it? No! You run and save yourself.
So in my story, i want to cut short all the details and go straight to the part where i decided to cut them people off my life. I really thought it would end the drama life that they are causing and deliberately wanting me to participate in their world.
Hahahahha guess what? The joke is on me.
Masa nilah kena hentam macam-macam. Kena tuduh pura-pura alim, hipokrit, anti couple, shit -talker lah apa lah.
Banyak dah kena label. Kena cakap itu ini. Menangis sebab kena tindas. Dimalukan. Diburukkan apatah lagi. Semua dah pernah kena.
Bear in mind; apa pun yang mereka cuba buat untuk jatuhkan kau, hold on, grasp your tormented mental firmly, and get a good grip on yourself.
One thing i learn about these people is that, the more you are reacting to the things they done to you, the more they will continue doing the same thing until they see you crumbling down and fall.
They consume your participation in the pathetic game they throw, in order to survive.
You are better. Be better.
1) Show them that they are worthless of your time.
2) They are not deserving of your efforts to be thinking about ways to get back to them.
3) Make it clear that you are a full grown up human that has no interest to mingle in such crazy society they are creating.
4) Consider them strangers and invisible. Make them beg for you to actually notice them.
And most important of all, forgive them and move on with your life.
Life will be so much easier trust me <3
No comments:
Post a Comment